Monday, 1 March 2010

The Goddess took my wee babe to the Summerlands (4th July 2009)

Baby Xavier born at 19 weeks 02/07/2009

I know that he is with my Mom and here is one of her favourite songs \"here comes the Sun\" I can't get this out of my head and know that this is Xavier's song now.


TheCrone said...

1.Ramsey Says:

July 3rd, 2009 at 10:58 am e

Dear Crone,
I am hoping that this post doesn’t mean what I think it does. Your Poor Girl. I hope your Family gathers around you and provides that rock solid but gentle comfort that only a Family can at these times. We are thinking of you and hope you have all the support you need.

2.simply.belinda Says:

July 3rd, 2009 at 12:01 pm e

My heart weeps for your family’s loss.

May the goddess, that granted him life for such a short time, live in your heart. She will understand any grief, anger or despair you feel as your footsteps echo down this path of pain. For she is a mother as well.

Kind Regards

3.Leah Says:

July 3rd, 2009 at 12:22 pm e

Oh hon, I’m so sorry. Thinking of you all.

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4.dixiebelle Says:

July 3rd, 2009 at 3:24 pm e

As I said on FB, I am so sorry for your loss, and wanted to show support for you and your family here too, and hope you know I am wishing that you find the strength to heal as you may, from this terrible heartache… blessings to little Xavier, may his spirit play amongst the flowers and trees, and that his mumma finds comfort there too…

5.molly Says:

July 3rd, 2009 at 3:56 pm e

Hugs woman! I’m only a phone call away, God Bless.

6.river Says:

July 3rd, 2009 at 6:35 pm e


7.Kez Says:

July 3rd, 2009 at 7:02 pm e

I am incredibly sorry for your loss

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8.Tricia Says:

July 3rd, 2009 at 11:48 pm e

Such sad news. I’m so sorry. I hope you and your family are finding strength in eachother.

Take care,

9.Sara Says:

July 4th, 2009 at 12:23 am e

I hope in the years to come you can find a way to remember the small joys you experienced while you had him without the heartbreak of his loss.
I’m still working on it, its been 2 years this weekend, but its easing.
My heart is with you and our family.

10.kel Says:

July 4th, 2009 at 2:52 pm e

my words fail me but I didnt want to just visit and leave without acknowledging your loss. I am so sorry.

11.Julie Says:

July 4th, 2009 at 3:01 pm e

Oh L, I’m so, so sorry. My heart and thoughts are with you and your family and precious little Xavier… {{{hugs}}}.

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12.Kristy Says:

July 4th, 2009 at 4:20 pm e

My heart aches for you… whispers to precious little Xavier… warm hugs to you, and to you all… xo

13.Jayne Says:

July 5th, 2009 at 1:13 am e

L - once again I wanted to say how very sorry I am to hear of your loss Blessings, peace and healing to you. xx

14.Em Says:

July 5th, 2009 at 6:46 am e

my heart aches for you Lara, take care of yourself xxx

15.sue caissy Says:

July 5th, 2009 at 9:42 am e

Oh dear Lara, what very,very sad news for you all. Pls take comfort in knowing that Xavier was already much loved and he’ll live on forever in your hearts.
Time now for Lara to regain her strength and keep up the good fight. Hope having the girls home from school will ease your pain a little.


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16.Jen in NSW Says:

July 5th, 2009 at 4:50 pm e

sad tears for you, every life is precious no matter how long their stay on earth

hope everything goes ok for you and yours

17.Teresa Says:

July 6th, 2009 at 9:38 am e

The world may never notice
If a Snowdrop doesn’t bloom,
Or even pause to wonder
If the petals fall too soon.

But every life that ever forms,
Or ever comes to be,
Touches the world in some small way

…For all eternity.

(author unknown to me)

–holding you close in my thoughts, and sending lots of love.

18.Nathalie Says:

July 6th, 2009 at 5:36 pm e

Big hug,

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19.Carlie Says:

July 8th, 2009 at 5:11 pm e

I’m so sorry for your loss.

20.babs Says:

July 9th, 2009 at 6:14 am e

I am so sorry sweetheart, big hugs, xxx Babs

21.Emily Says:

July 9th, 2009 at 1:15 pm e

I am so sorry for your families loss. You are all in our thoughts.

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22.Kelly Says:

July 11th, 2009 at 6:27 pm e

Oh Lara………i’m so terribly, terribly sorry.

23.Yarrow Says:

July 19th, 2009 at 11:14 am e

So terribly sorry to hear of your loss. May the Goddess hold you and your family as well as your wee babe in Her loving arms. Healing wishes to you. Blessings.

24.Sage Says:

July 23rd, 2009 at 4:55 pm e

I am sorry I didn’t know this earlier.. my condolences to you and your family on your loss and I hope your healing is swift but your good memories long {{hugs}}

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Natasha Says:

August 28th, 2009 at 11:35 am e

I actually avoided your blog for a while because you were pregnant.

I’m so sorry

I too have lost a baby at 19 weeks.

My heart cries out to you.

You love for planting and the garden will help you to grieve